Everyone has the recipe: we must love, to forgive, to let go. Etc... All good and well. But the present situation can be so messy, so desperate that does not allow even a very first step. And yet ... and yet there are people who have begun a healing journey from the bottom, say, from extremely low points, such as after a serious accident, a mutilation or a paralysis, after receiving a sentence of life imprisonment or after the diagnosis of a rare disease, incurable and deadly.
The fact is that the low point from which we start for healing is the low in which we ourselves entered, because a part of us loves this mud. Starting from the bottom means first of all identify the part of us that resists healing, but not in an abstract sense, as in the concrete sense of resistance to let go of a feature of the current situation which, while having a negative aura, however, draws us .
Starting from the bottom is to enter into ourselves, within. The decision to heal is only personal and involves only personal steps. As sad or hopeless the situation is, there is a way. You can.
Saying it in this way seems more like a joke. Each one may have its own vision of the world strong enough to say that there is no solution. She resists. Maybe you do not want to heal. But it is not important. Red is red, even if a person is afraid to admit it.
You will admit it, sooner or later.
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